I’m getting a really nice vacation back in the interior, in a city that was my home for a long time. Today I was lucky to visit with my old play partner and her fiancé (and subby). These two women are a hoot, a bucket of fun and always a pleasant conversation and good time.
Dysmorphia, and her girl came out and enjoyed a dinner with my family (where I’m staying) and we had a really nice visit and meal. I’ve been friends with Dys for a long time and shes been out to my families home for big parties etc before. In fact my mother and grandmother are particularly fond of them. It was rather nice all in all. Afterwards the three of us went out for a visit with mutual friends and then a movie. We saw bridesmaids, in honour of their coming nuptials. Afterwards on their porch we talked about life, and their relationship and mine, and I walked away feeling awed. These two have it together.
Later this summer they will be getting married, and I’m lucky enough to be a brides’man (or groomsman or whatever you want to say in this case) for dys’s girl. It’s something Im very excited for.
The roundabout point of all this, is sometimes, young kinky people find love, and it works. Its bittersweet, and full of fights, and agonies and dramas, but somehow if people work, it somehow comes together. I was so concerned a year ago, as I would talk to them midway through a fight, or a near breakup, or a very emotional drama, and I would wonder how they could last. Sure enough though the next day or week they would be just fine. They would talk out their differences and move forward. Sure they aren't 24/7 d/s, and sure they aren't your typical couple either. But they have found a balance that works for them. Dys leads most of the time, but her girl will speak her mind and they sort shit out, as it happens, in real time. I realized as time went on its just an incredibly passionate relationship and thus will have sparks even in conflict. It’s beautiful really, and leaves me hope for myself and all of us
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