inspired submission

Lately I have been in a very unique situation. My new partner is not particularly “kinky” in the traditional sense. She has a dominant side but it isn’t “dominant” as a general rule. This vanilla relationship thing has given me a lot of chances to get to understand the subtly of human psychology for d/s style chemistry without d/s labels. I find myself doing submissive things and responding to dominant behaviours randomly, in cuddling, in talking etc, but we aren’t consciously identifying it that way. It gives me new appreciation for the value of that core trust and vulnerability it takes to expose one another to trust and power exchange.

We are in fact all human. and I do believe that dominance, submission, sadomasochism etc, are just explorations of traits inherent to human beings. In that, to some degree or another we inspire power between ourselves. Those of us who are actively “kinky” really play with it of course. I’m finding myself though, inspired to my inner sense of submission by the actions of my sweetheart, and she in turn responds with a dominant care. It’s really quite lovely and brings me a lot of appreciation for human nature.